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The sexual landscape has changed: Stay safe

As a 41 year old woman who's been sexually active for over 25 years, I've seen a lot of things change: One of them being men's behaviour in the bedroom. Somewhere around my mid-20s I remember noticing that spanking had become more common. I'm not opposed to consensual slaps, or power play, but I still find it so fucking weird when a guy slaps my ass. Like, it would never, ever occur to me to strike a partner during sex (unless perhaps it's a terrible ex, or someone with whom I have a contentious relationship).
Why did most of the men I was fucking think it was cool? Did they think I enjoyed this? Did they even care?

#TBT Colouring Page

This colouring page was born from the first thing I sketched out after many years of not drawing or painting. It was intended to go onto cards, for clients, that they could colour in if they wished. It was created at a beautiful afternoon potluck crafternoon, and always reminds me of that day. Aside from the original (shown below), I don't know if this has ever actually been coloured in! 

If you'd like a printable copy to colour, please comment below!